A chapter from the book I'm currently reading, "Happiness in Hard Times" by Andrew Matthews is profoundly true and yet, most of us fail to note it. It's easy to talk the talk but it's really time to walk the walk!
" Perhaps you are broke right now. Perhaps you have lost your job or lost a loved one. May be you are sick. You say, "I just don't know what to do."
Here is the first thing to do - and the only thing to do. You accept where you are. To turn things around you first make peace with your situation.
Forget about blame, forget about guilt, forget the "what ifs", Progress depends on acceptance. Acceptance doesn't mean, "I want to stay here." Acceptance means: "This is where I am - and now I move on to what I want."
It saddens me to know that a dear fren is still in the shadows of what-ifs. I hope I'm wrong abt this but it seems that it was from 3 mths ago and I hope you hv walked out into the light, as there is so much that life can offer and for what you hv now, you should be grateful. =)
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